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  • So my friend just takes my stuff.

    I have a friend that i have known for 4 years in real life. We are pretty close friends. He also plays GT like me.
    He is kind of a "weird player"since he sometimes has a lot of worldlocks and sometimes no worldlocks. He also changes his set weekly and loses worldlocks that way. When he is broke he always comes at me asking for worldlocks. Sometimes he needs it to make profit and sometimes he just needs it to upgrade his world. I lend him worldlocks now and then but only if he has a good reason. If i dont give him a lend he might take it anyway.
    Today he needed worldlocks for 8 vending machines. (I do not have that much on hand because its all spent on my geiger chargers and farmables)

    This is how this went down

    Me : I dont have any worldlocks.
    Him : What happened to them?
    Me : I have them invested in chargers and farmables.
    Him : Sell your farmables.
    Me : No i dont want to.
    Him : Well sell your devils.
    Me : But they are for my set.
    Him : Teeny angels would look better on you.
    Me : Look i am not selling my things to lend you worldlocks.
    Him : Ok then.

    After this i stopped playing for a while and came back an hour later. I noticed that he had taken my vending machines from my little shop world and moved them to his world.
    This has happened to me alot. He always gives my stuff back to whitch is ok.
    But the problem i am having with him is that he just takes whatever i dont physically give him (if it is available).

    I think its dumb because he does not have rights to take other peoples things. this is not breaking our friendship, just an annoying habit of his.

    Sorry this was kind of an useless rant but i hope you understand.
    Stop doing the the things you are doing.
    Start doing the things you have never done.

  • #2
    Yea i can understand you.
    Just put small locks on the stuff you don't want him to take.
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    • #3
      Originally posted by Freeds View Post
      Yea i can understand you.
      Just put small locks on the stuff you don't want him to take.
      I did. And he did not like that i would not trust him.
      Stop doing the the things you are doing.
      Start doing the things you have never done.

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      • #4
        I understand your situation. In that case, I recommend you assert your dominance over YOUR OWN ITEMS (im not angry, just trying to make a point)

        And make it a valid reason to say to him that they are not his. And, that it is YOUR DECISION whether or not to lend. In my opinion, what he's doing is basically taking ownage of what's yours – and to me? That ain't right at all. You're being used, and being manipulatively guilt-tripped – using trust as a foundation to make things work on his favor.

        If he's using "trust" as a leverage for all the reasons he should still be able to borrow from you, then that's in all angles, wrong.

        A real friend has to understand that being trusted, doesn't equate to immediately getting a "yes" from whatever they wanna do.

        As harsh as I may sound, stop allowing yourself to be walked on, man.
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        • #5
          he probably plays casino, that's his "investment"
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          • #6
            This seems like an abusive friendship. I’d get outta there.
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            • #7
              Originally posted by Ica View Post
              This seems like an abusive friendship. I’d get outta there.
              ^^^

              there's nothing wrong with cutting people off of your life, especially if you have an unhealthy relationship with them
              (´,,•ω•,,)/<3

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              • #8
                Originally posted by fuwuka View Post
                ^^^

                there's nothing wrong with cutting people off of your life, especially if you have an unhealthy relationship with them
                I would have cut our friendship of if it was necessary.
                As i said his is just a bad habit of his. Everyone has a bad habit.

                We still have fun and talk alot.
                Stop doing the the things you are doing.
                Start doing the things you have never done.

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                • #9
                  You're like his sugar daddy now wow
                  Pssst, over here

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                  • #10
                    never trust a friend, even if u talk to him alot and have fun.

                    U can always put small locks at ur entrances. If he asks about them, just say " i don't trust people " despite his response. Or u can ask him why he stole ur vends and that ur broke right now.

                    If he keeps doing this (stealing expensive stuff), might as well get out dat friend relationship
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                    Worlds: 7CLOUD9, TOPPEDGT, TEAMXVL, FEDJK, REGIONONE, 7IMV, DECEPTIONDIVE
                    What other games do i play: Geometry Dash, Azur Lane


                    heh

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by NutNut View Post
                      We are irl friends who went to same high school and pretty much were best friends for the whole highschool experience.
                      Unfriend that ass yo..

                      I've had friends like that too when i first started, took my butterfly, i cri.
                      Last edited by Devour; 07-06-2019, 07:51 PM.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by YukikazeSama View Post
                        never trust a friend, even if u talk to him alot and have fun.

                        U can always put small locks at ur entrances. If he asks about them, just say " i don't trust people " despite his response. Or u can ask him why he stole ur vends and that ur broke right now.

                        If he keeps doing this (stealing expensive stuff), might as well get out dat friend relationship
                        We are irl friends who went to same high school and pretty much were best friends for the whole highschool experience.

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                        Originally posted by Devour View Post
                        Unfriend that ass yo..
                        He is my irl friend, this is just a bad habit of his.
                        Stop doing the the things you are doing.
                        Start doing the things you have never done.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by NutNut View Post
                          We are irl friends who went to same high school and pretty much were best friends for the whole highschool experience.
                          might aswell ask him why did he stole ur vends. leeching off people is not fun
                          In Game Name: YukikazeSama
                          Worlds: 7CLOUD9, TOPPEDGT, TEAMXVL, FEDJK, REGIONONE, 7IMV, DECEPTIONDIVE
                          What other games do i play: Geometry Dash, Azur Lane


                          heh

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