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  • Dear Friends Who Are Always Off Location

    So what's the reason? Do yall have secret casinos or something?? Cause I literally just unfriended 4 of my friends who I don't even know because for 3 years of being friends they never, not once, opened their location. They warped me just 1 time and then never again, probably just to check if I'm pro enough to be kept as their friends. So now I was like bye bithh there's no point of being friends wit you literally just a waste of my friend list.

  • #2
    Yes, we definitely host casinos, drop games, donate games, vend scams, auto farm, sell dls and do every single illegal actions in game all the time and cause there is so much illegal activities, we have no time to open location ever. So pls, let us continue our illegal activities. Ty.

    And for real, i am not so social person as some ppl might think. I am shy, i hide most of the time and now days, i even use unknown alt accounts when i want buy stuff, cause i'm so shy and ik that some ppl recognize me. So that's why my location is always off. I want do my stuff in private and i don't want that someone spy me. I feel it uncomfortable for some reason. Maybe it's cause of my mental issues or something.

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    • Kludge
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      LMAOOO U SEEM FUN we should meet in-game

    • QueenChloe
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      ***, more like i seem idiot if i don't have time to hide my fears

    • Kludge
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      nah u sound adorable, no flirting intended.

  • #3
    Originally posted by QueenChloe View Post
    Yes, we definitely host casinos, drop games, donate games, vend scams, auto farm, sell dls and do every single illegal actions in game all the time and cause there is so much illegal activities, we have no time to open location ever. So pls, let us continue our illegal activities. Ty.

    And for real, i am not so social person as some ppl might think. I am shy, i hide most of the time and now days, i even use unknown alt accounts when i want buy stuff, cause i'm so shy and ik that some ppl recognize me. So that's why my location is always off. I want do my stuff in private and i don't want that someone spy me. I feel it uncomfortable for some reason. Maybe it's cause of my mental issues or something.
    BITHH??? Bithh I have a social anxiety IRL and it's been getting worse since the quarantine started. I can't stand being seen when there are visitors in our home. I don't know how to talk to people because of my poor social/communication skills. But even then, I am able to be FRIENDLY with my FRIENDS in a GAME where you sit in front of a SCREEN where you won't be SEEN. I added my friends to be FRIENDS with them not to fudging AVOID them??? Your excuse doesn't count sorry if I sound pissed off because that is literally so fudging ANNOYING!!! ERGHHHH!!!

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    • JimIzPro
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      Bithhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

  • #4
    Originally posted by CodesProfit View Post

    BITHH??? Bithh I have a social anxiety IRL and it's been getting worse since the quarantine started. I can't stand being seen when there are visitors in our home. I don't know how to talk to people because of my poor social/communication skills. But even then, I am able to be FRIENDLY with my FRIENDS in a GAME where you sit in front of a SCREEN where you won't be SEEN. I added my friends to be FRIENDS with them not to fudging AVOID them??? Your excuse doesn't count sorry if I sound pissed off because that is literally so fudging ANNOYING!!! ERGHHHH!!!
    Dude.. do you know how different social anxiety could be? And what is anxiety disorder? I have multiple mental issues and yes i have real diagnoses about those. So you can't come and say here what i feel and what i can't feel! That's super messed up. I can talk with strangers at work, i am good customer service worker. I can 100% hide my mental diseases at work. But in game, it causes anxiety when ppl warp me and want talk and i don't want talk. Also i have times in real life when i don't answer my phone or messages from my best most closest friends! That is anxiety disorder. So don't ever come say to me that you know what i feel or what i experience if you just don't know how to talk with ppl. That could be just lack of social skills, but i have mental diseases and very good social skills. Everyone who know me, loves me and wants be my friend, cause i understand different ppl and i can listen and help so well, i am popular person irl, i have always been, but that makes me tired also. I can't be everyones therapist every day or i feel that i drown in other ppl problems. So yeah. there is ppl without social skills, and there is ppl with excellent social skills like i am, and when ppl with great social skills get anxiety, they doesn't want meet ppl, cause they could hurt someones feelings when they are tired of listen to all other ppl problems.

    And maybe, who knows, you could be annoying person. So have you thought that maybe, you warped few times too often your so called friends and maybe throw all your problems on them or was just some martyr or attention seeker? If your friends doesn't want meet you, maybe, just maybe, you should look into your actions. You could be the reason. Like in here, you already assumed that you know all about my mental issues while you are kid, with no life experience and i'm adult who has had anxiety disorder more years than you have lived. How fun that sounds lmao I had first diagnose in age of 15 and i'm 38. So how many years experience you have? If you feel lonely cause of quarantine, you might be the person who doesn't give space for them, who need space and they stop answering your messages. When that happens, they slowly start cut u out from their life cause after all, it's good to cut out the poop out from your life and you will instant feel better. I felt huge relief when one my friend finally removed me, cause i was so tired to be his therapist. Always when he came to me, i needed listen how he feel bad, and he is lonely and he has hard time in his life. That made me feel down so he was toxic for me. We never had nice convo, always just talked about his so hard life.

    But well... idk what is reason behind your issues with your friends, but i just suggest that you look on mirror and not just attack on those ppl who need their own time and who doesn't want talk with u 24/7. some ppl doesn't want say no when u want add them, but they also doesn't want talk all the time with u if they add u. If they asked to add u in f list, then idk again what's the problem, but in my case, i think 100% of my gt friends are ppl who wanted add me, not that i would ask them to add me lol

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    • #5
      Originally posted by QueenChloe View Post

      Dude.. do you know how different social anxiety could be? And what is anxiety disorder? I have multiple mental issues and yes i have real diagnoses about those. So you can't come and say here what i feel and what i can't feel! That's super messed up. I can talk with strangers at work, i am good customer service worker. I can 100% hide my mental diseases at work. But in game, it causes anxiety when ppl warp me and want talk and i don't want talk. Also i have times in real life when i don't answer my phone or messages from my best most closest friends! That is anxiety disorder. So don't ever come say to me that you know what i feel or what i experience if you just don't know how to talk with ppl. That could be just lack of social skills, but i have mental diseases and very good social skills. Everyone who know me, loves me and wants be my friend, cause i understand different ppl and i can listen and help so well, i am popular person irl, i have always been, but that makes me tired also. I can't be everyones therapist every day or i feel that i drown in other ppl problems. So yeah. there is ppl without social skills, and there is ppl with excellent social skills like i am, and when ppl with great social skills get anxiety, they doesn't want meet ppl, cause they could hurt someones feelings when they are tired of listen to all other ppl problems.

      And maybe, who knows, you could be annoying person. So have you thought that maybe, you warped few times too often your so called friends and maybe throw all your problems on them or was just some martyr or attention seeker? If your friends doesn't want meet you, maybe, just maybe, you should look into your actions. You could be the reason. Like in here, you already assumed that you know all about my mental issues while you are kid, with no life experience and i'm adult who has had anxiety disorder more years than you have lived. How fun that sounds lmao I had first diagnose in age of 15 and i'm 38. So how many years experience you have? If you feel lonely cause of quarantine, you might be the person who doesn't give space for them, who need space and they stop answering your messages. When that happens, they slowly start cut u out from their life cause after all, it's good to cut out the poop out from your life and you will instant feel better. I felt huge relief when one my friend finally removed me, cause i was so tired to be his therapist. Always when he came to me, i needed listen how he feel bad, and he is lonely and he has hard time in his life. That made me feel down so he was toxic for me. We never had nice convo, always just talked about his so hard life.

      But well... idk what is reason behind your issues with your friends, but i just suggest that you look on mirror and not just attack on those ppl who need their own time and who doesn't want talk with u 24/7. some ppl doesn't want say no when u want add them, but they also doesn't want talk all the time with u if they add u. If they asked to add u in f list, then idk again what's the problem, but in my case, i think 100% of my gt friends are ppl who wanted add me, not that i would ask them to add me lol
      I don't know how to start...so how about I'll start with my apologies for offending you about something that I said even though the only thing I said was that being shy was not really a reason to ignore your friends for 3 years. I also want to clarify that I never meant any disrespect from my first post and my replies so I'm sorry if you got offended. So now, moving on...

      Now let's list some things!
      • "do you know how different social anxiety could be? And what is anxiety disorder?" Anxiety disorders could be different things! It could be PTSD, Panic Disorder or or even OCD. And social anxiety is one of them too!
      • "So you can't come and say here what i feel and what i can't feel! That's super messed up" Woah dude...not sure where you got that from but I don't remember telling you what to feel and not to feel?
      • "i have times in real life when i don't answer my phone or messages from my best most closest friends!" Same! But the reason I do these is because of being afraid to be judged which is a definition of social anxiety.
      • "So don't ever come say to me that you know what i feel or what i experience if you just don't know how to talk with ppl" Woah... Once again, I never meant any disrespect. Also, I don't think I ever said what you felt? All I said was that "your excuse doesn't count sorry" and that excuse was about you being "shy" to your friends...
      • "you warped few times too often your so called friends and maybe throw all your problems on them or was just some martyr or attention seeker" Like I said from the first post, these "friends" never, not once opened their locations and I did try to /msg them to see what they're up to but never once there was a response...
      • "Like in here, you already assumed that you know all about my mental issues while you are kid, with no life experience and i'm adult who has had anxiety disorder more years than you have lived." I really don't think I ever assumed any of your mental issues all I was trying to say was "being shy is not a valid reason to avoid your friends for a whole 3 years"
      • "How fun that sounds lmao I had first diagnose in age of 15 and i'm 38. So how many years experience you have?" I'm actually only 17 years old and turning 18 in 3 months! I only self-diagnosed myself with social anxiety which was pretty obvious to know because of the stuff I do, and pretty much everyone I know is aware of it too.
      • "If you feel lonely cause of quarantine, you might be the person who doesn't give space for them, who need space and they stop answering your messages." The thing about having social anxiety is that...you're never the first one to talk, I have never started a conversation through chat, I just wait for my friends to start the conversations and then I respond to them to continue the conversations.
      • " but i just suggest that you look on mirror and not just attack on those ppl who need their own time and who doesn't want talk with u 24/7." It is kinda rude for you to "assume" what kind of person I am don't you think? Also a fun fact: My longest conversation with someone was around 40 minutes, that is because I always leave them on read whenever I feel tired talking to them, which happens pretty often. I'm actually surprised that I still have friends considering that I'm pretty hard to talk to because I try to avoid long convos. (we're talking about real life friends btw)


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      • #6
        I'm so sorry that i'm one of your friends that always turns off their location. I mean, i really wanted to turn it on. But, i kinda have a social anxiety too both IRL and in-game. I always have a bad thoughts whenever someone came like, "What if he/she didn't like me ?" "What if i make mistakes ?" Etc. I'm a person that can't really socialize that good. I can't think of any good topics, can't really maintain a good topic, my english is bad, etc. I'm a shy person, maybe an introvert. I'm a person that loves loneliness.

        But sometimes, i do also wanted to socialize with my in game friends. Once i saw you in one of your worlds. I wanted to come but i also kinda afraid and shy so i decided not to ehe.

        I truly wanted to have some friends in this game but idk how. I used to have some, we played together, we know each other very well, even til we became irl friend. But now all of them had quitted the game years ago. We still have our contacts and we usually still chit chatting. But that's not in-game. I had never found any good friends since the day they quitted till now.
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        i'm so sorry codeaf that i might look like an arrogant, selfish and a bad person. I'm trully not. So sorry that most of the times my FCs were weird and kinda... You know... I'm sorry that i can't become a good friend for you. I hope you understand


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        • #7
          Maybe u just answered ur question. U said, u have never started a convo so maybe ppl feel anxious when they need always be the ones who need contact u, they feel that u don't care about them, cause they can't know about ur issues (solution: tell them why u don't start concos or just be open about ur issues) Or maybe, they feel that cause u never talk long, then there is maybe too much long brakes in convo(?) or that other need lead that convo in somewhere, or that they feel that you leave world too quickly maybe even in the middle of convo?. Thing is, when u notice that most ppl do something near u, then u are most likely the source of problem or they all just are like me and want play mostly alone (social ppl maybe doesn't play games cause they hang out with friends out game). I go in public world if i am not anti social but when i'm not in public world, i mostly show by that, that i don't want or don't have time to hang out with others. So we have many reasons why we keep locations off. And my fear is that if i put it on, i forgot it on when i want be alone and boom then i need talk with ppl, cause i don't want ask them to leave me alone. (sure i have problem cause of my ig. I got some fame what i didn't want, but i still try somehow keep my privacy while i also try not to ignore ppl and it's not easy task)

          But like i said, we aren't same. We can't know why ppl need privacy so u can't be mad for u friends if they need more privacy than u do. U can't know who else might warp them if they on their locations. What i hate even more than warppers is that when 3 ppl warp me at once (or even more) and they all want talk with me about different things and i cant keep 3 different theme convos going on at once. So maybe, you need just msg them, if they don't reply, they might be afk or sounds off and in busy world etc. U maybe think that they ignore u, but that is not always the case and if they ignore u by purpose then they don't like u and u should just remove them.

          And again, read your first reply, it was extremely angry and rude and sound like "** off, u ** with ur fake excuses" . I am also highly sensitive person. Like i said, i have many many mental issues and when we add super sensitive personality in this soup, the mess is ready to boil over

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          • #8
            Originally posted by LinCie View Post
            I'm so sorry that i'm one of your friends that always turns off their location. I mean, i really wanted to turn it on. But, i kinda have a social anxiety too both IRL and in-game. I always have a bad thoughts whenever someone came like, "What if he/she didn't like me ?" "What if i make mistakes ?" Etc. I'm a person that can't really socialize that good. I can't think of any good topics, can't really maintain a good topic, my english is bad, etc. I'm a shy person, maybe an introvert. I'm a person that loves loneliness.

            But sometimes, i do also wanted to socialize with my in game friends. Once i saw you in one of your worlds. I wanted to come but i also kinda afraid and shy so i decided not to ehe.

            I truly wanted to have some friends in this game but idk how. I used to have some, we played together, we know each other very well, even til we became irl friend. But now all of them had quitted the game years ago. We still have our contacts and we usually still chit chatting. But that's not in-game. I had never found any good friends since the day they quitted till now.
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            Hi LinCie! I saw your /msg earlier I saw it an hour after you /msg because I was AFK for a long while because I was eating

            Don't worry I understand, and I also only started this thread because I was so pissed and annoyed with my friends from 3 years ago (2017) who I never even had a conversation with, they were just on my friend list for that whole 3 years and we never met ever since the day we added each other so I tried sending some /msg to them for a week and not a single response so that's when I started getting really annoyed so I just decided to remove them and wondered why they were always off location so I went straight to forums to ask that LOL

            Originally posted by LinCie View Post
            "i'm so sorry codeaf that i might look like an arrogant, selfish and a bad person. I'm trully not. So sorry that most of the times my FCs were weird and kinda... You know..."
            LOL, I would never think anyone is arrogant or selfish or a bad person just because they're off location so chill bro Also my FCs are even weirder LMAO.

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            • LinCie
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              Thanks for understanding ehe. Hope we could be a much closer friend after this

          • #9
            Originally posted by QueenChloe View Post
            Maybe u just answered ur question. U said, u have never started a convo so maybe ppl feel anxious when they need always be the ones who need contact u, they feel that u don't care about them, cause they can't know about ur issues (solution: tell them why u don't start concos or just be open about ur issues) Or maybe, they feel that cause u never talk long, then there is maybe too much long brakes in convo(?) or that other need lead that convo in somewhere, or that they feel that you leave world too quickly maybe even in the middle of convo?. Thing is, when u notice that most ppl do something near u, then u are most likely the source of problem or they all just are like me and want play mostly alone (social ppl maybe doesn't play games cause they hang out with friends out game). I go in public world if i am not anti social but when i'm not in public world, i mostly show by that, that i don't want or don't have time to hang out with others. So we have many reasons why we keep locations off. And my fear is that if i put it on, i forgot it on when i want be alone and boom then i need talk with ppl, cause i don't want ask them to leave me alone. (sure i have problem cause of my ig. I got some fame what i didn't want, but i still try somehow keep my privacy while i also try not to ignore ppl and it's not easy task)

            But like i said, we aren't same. We can't know why ppl need privacy so u can't be mad for u friends if they need more privacy than u do. U can't know who else might warp them if they on their locations. What i hate even more than warppers is that when 3 ppl warp me at once (or even more) and they all want talk with me about different things and i cant keep 3 different theme convos going on at once. So maybe, you need just msg them, if they don't reply, they might be afk or sounds off and in busy world etc. U maybe think that they ignore u, but that is not always the case and if they ignore u by purpose then they don't like u and u should just remove them.

            And again, read your first reply, it was extremely angry and rude and sound like "** off, u ** with ur fake excuses" . I am also highly sensitive person. Like i said, i have many many mental issues and when we add super sensitive personality in this soup, the mess is ready to boil over
            Eye- I'm gonna be honest... I didn't understand half of what you just said... But when I said I'm never the conversation starter I was talking about my IRL friends which is harder to have conversations with because of the fact that they know me IRL so they could easily judge me (which is exactly what people with social anxiety fear). But in GT of course when I warp my friends I'm the one who would have to say "hey" and then the conversation goes on...

            Now to my point, this thread's purpose was to know why some of yall are off location from the day you made your account you were already off location and never once opened it. But it seems like you're making it sound like I'm the problem which is not it... When someone turns their location off, it's not just me who gets affected, it's their whole friend list. But your replies looks like you're making it sound like it's my own fault they close their location which doesn't make any sense because the dude has other friends than me...

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            • #10
              Like i said, u might be the problem and here u don't listen. U say that u can't be reason and i tried say, u might be. Denying that option, is not option. U said that my reason is not valid and it's excuse and that made me think that u are the reason. U didn't accept honest reason as a valid reason so u are person who judge others and that makes me stay a far away from u for sure. So again, look in mirror and try figure out what you could do different so your friends would feel that they can let you in their world. If u deny and don't accept reasons what others have, then u aren't good friend at all. U are even worse than i am as a friend. I'm bad friend cause i don't have time for all my friends, but at least i don't say that their anxiety or shyness is not valid reason to them if they want space. XD

              It is your job to make ppl feel comfortable near you, if you fail, you have no friends. So try improve that and try understand that ppl need space and privacy and when they have maybe 300 friends, they get no space or privacy if location is ever on. Judging them from that is just bad move, don't do that ok..? (my location has been off maybe from december 2017 or something and i started gt in september 2017. So it has been closed since i started get more friends and needed hide so i have even some privacy. Now days i added jammers in almost every world so when ppl msg me they can't use /rgo) without those, i have no space, no privacy at all. So pls, try stand in my shoes and look this issue from my perspective (my perspective could be same as some other pps) If you want meet those ppl who has location off, maybe they hate surprises? Maybe you should just msg them and ask where they are and can you join? Also in real life, my heart almost pop out from my chest if if someone touch on my doorbell. I want that ppl call me (on phone) if they want come in my home, not just come here without any warnings. My home is my safe place, my private area and no one can just come here without asking first is it ok.

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              • #11
                I have like 400 friends max but like 15% act like it lol

                Also, the private loc feature is there so we can use it, simple, not cus we autofarm or casino sorry

                I personally off mine because I don't want anyone warping to me and sh*t like that

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                • JimIzPro
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                  also, i like how things went from annoyed because off location to anxiety disorders

              • #12
                I turn off my location when I don't want to be disturbed.

                It's really annoying when I'm farming and then someone warps to me and claims I'm doing auto because I didn't respond to them. I usually farm on mobile and watch videos on my laptop so my eyes are off my screen. So, to prevent false claims, I turn off my location. In addition, when people warp to me, I have to make conversation with them. It kind of breaks the momentum so I just prefer to not reveal my location.

                When I was a hardcore farmer, I found it a hassle to keep toggling the location so I just kept it off for a while.

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                • #13
                  Umm if u ask me, i turn it of coz :
                  1. I have anxiety 2. Not a talkative person
                  3. I wanna do everything private

                  if not, sorry
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                  • Hazefaze
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                    Also i had same reason like 2 persons above me

                • #14
                  • "Like i said, u might be the problem and here u don't listen. U say that u can't be reason and i tried say, u might be."

                  -I swear I can tell you that I definitely wasn't the problem, because like I said 3 times now I never had any form of contact with them ever since the day we added each other.
                  • "look in mirror and try figure out what you could do different so your friends would feel that they can let you in their world."

                  -If I could go back in time I wish I never added them because they literally had no effect on me, their names were just in my friend list and that's it. I sent them tons of messages but not once did they respond. And so I said, "bye bithh removing...."
                  • "If u deny and don't accept reasons what others have, then u aren't good friend at all. U are even worse than i am as a friend."

                  -That's a bit of overreaction but okay... And hell yeah I'm going to deny your "reasons" because I know for a fact that I wasn't the problem. Once again, I tried reaching out to them, no response. I tried waiting for another week messaging them every time I see them online and today is the day I had enough so I made my decision to remove them. If you're gonna ask "why not give them the benefit of the doubt?" I literally just did, I gave them a week but they were acting like ghosts, imagine being "friends" with someone for 3 years ever since you started playing GT and not one single interaction happened in those 3 years. Like, no thanks bye.
                  • "Maybe you should just msg them and ask where they are and can you join"

                  -Cause I did message them and no single response... I already said this from my previous reply...

                  Bonus Message: If those "friends" have closed location for 3 years then it's obviously not only me who experienced that, the dude has other friends too and not just me. So saying that I'm the only one who is making them close their location is kinda....stupid. Because I'm not their only friend. (duh)

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                  • #15
                    I mean that option exists for a reason, so let them be

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