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    Hi, Mistie here. I'd like to know why male players in growtopia are treated so differently than females. Like the other day I was in a 'BUY+' world, looking for a specific item, and these 3 players came up to me wouldn't stop crowding and following me. They said AWFUL things. LIKE EXTREMELY AWFUL. Just imagine the worst things you could say/say you'd do to a female and that's what they said. I wanted them to stop, so I tried something. I put on some 'male' hair (messy brown hair), and told them I was a guy. They said "oh you gay" and left me alone finally. I've experienced countless situations like this & don't understand why some guys have to be so rude and immature. I've been told to go back into the kitchen and make a sandwich, or go back to cleaning the house, etc. It's probably just where I live there's a lot of freedom for women, but I just hate how common it is to encounter these toxic players in Growtopia. Most of the time I just report or ignore their rude remarks, but it's just so common now. Also, what's up with using 'id do something to your mom' as an insult. ._. Also, the word 'gay' should NOT BE AN INSULT. It's disgusting how these are both used as insults.
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    Lesson number 1 in the new GT

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    Quote Originally Posted by Romai Mori View Post
    Lesson number 1 in the new GT

    Never take anyone seriously. At all. Their IQ is too low it’s not even worth it to waste energy on them. All you can do is chuckle at their feeble attempt and move on. Because you’re the goddess of your own life.
    that is extremely 100% true
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    I’m a guy. I think you’re right but I never experienced what you did (obviously). I had a friend who was a girl and didn’t tell me before being friends for over a year, then she did. She told me it’s because she feels like girls are always made fun of in the game and this broke my heart. She liked frogs a lot
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    Well first- gamer girls are like not treated well in general

    Second-growtopia has a pretty toxic community if u couldnt tell :,)
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    Quote Originally Posted by NekoWolf View Post
    Hi, Mistie here. I'd like to know why male players in growtopia are treated so differently than females. Like the other day I was in a 'BUY+' world, looking for a specific item, and these 3 players came up to me wouldn't stop crowding and following me. They said AWFUL things. LIKE EXTREMELY AWFUL. Just imagine the worst things you could say/say you'd do to a female and that's what they said. I wanted them to stop, so I tried something. I put on some 'male' hair (messy brown hair), and told them I was a guy. They said "oh you gay" and left me alone finally. I've experienced countless situations like this & don't understand why some guys have to be so rude and immature. I've been told to go back into the kitchen and make a sandwich, or go back to cleaning the house, etc. It's probably just where I live there's a lot of freedom for women, but I just hate how common it is to encounter these toxic players in Growtopia. Most of the time I just report or ignore their rude remarks, but it's just so common now. Also, what's up with using 'id do something to your mom' as an insult. ._. Also, the word 'gay' should NOT BE AN INSULT. It's disgusting how these are both used as insults.
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    also I have never seen someone talk about my little ol' mother but if they do........
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    It's actually just guys in puberty, there have been many papers made on this topic, but what they all can agree on is that some guys will try to get a female's attention with negative things. The best thing to do is just to ignore them even if it is hard


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    Kids will be kids, you can decide for yourself if it's your problem. If you take it too seriously, you get offended, but if you don't take seriously, nothing.

    It isn't just females. It happens to everyone, don't think that your gender affects anything here. The kids are just jealous.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NekoWolf View Post
    Hi, Mistie here. I'd like to know why male players in growtopia are treated so differently than females. Like the other day I was in a 'BUY+' world, looking for a specific item, and these 3 players came up to me wouldn't stop crowding and following me. They said AWFUL things. LIKE EXTREMELY AWFUL. Just imagine the worst things you could say/say you'd do to a female and that's what they said. I wanted them to stop, so I tried something. I put on some 'male' hair (messy brown hair), and told them I was a guy. They said "oh you gay" and left me alone finally. I've experienced countless situations like this & don't understand why some guys have to be so rude and immature. I've been told to go back into the kitchen and make a sandwich, or go back to cleaning the house, etc. It's probably just where I live there's a lot of freedom for women, but I just hate how common it is to encounter these toxic players in Growtopia. Most of the time I just report or ignore their rude remarks, but it's just so common now. Also, what's up with using 'id do something to your mom' as an insult. ._. Also, the word 'gay' should NOT BE AN INSULT. It's disgusting how these are both used as insults.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HugeLock View Post
    Kids will be kids, you can decide for yourself if it's your problem. If you take it too seriously, you get offended, but if you don't take seriously, nothing.

    It isn't just females. It happens to everyone, don't think that your gender affects anything here. The kids are just jealous.
    Actually, my gender does affect alot of the things said to me. You're a guy right? Anyone ever tell you to go back to the kitchen because that's where you belong? And that women are supposed to be servants to men?
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    Quote Originally Posted by NekoWolf View Post
    Actually, my gender does affect alot of the things said to me. You're a guy right? Anyone ever tell you to go back to the kitchen because that's where you belong? And that women are supposed to be servants to men?
    Of course not. I believe that most people grow up civilized. So technically we don't do that. Gender equality is a thing, yes. Also, I try to respect every woman I see irl and in-game so I don't offend them of course.
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    Just remember you're being berated by young kids. Kids are stupid.
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    you know 80% of gt players are children don't u i actually wish i would get treated like that, its fun seeing people get salty

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    Quote Originally Posted by astinotrix View Post
    you know 80% of gt players are children don't u i actually wish i would get treated like that, its fun seeing people get salty

    also my advice to you is to use this mustache to chase away all the boys who might be following you, try it
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    Quote Originally Posted by HugeLock View Post
    Kids will be kids, you can decide for yourself if it's your problem. If you take it too seriously, you get offended, but if you don't take seriously, nothing.

    It isn't just females. It happens to everyone, don't think that your gender affects anything here. The kids are just jealous.
    Kids are never jealous whenever things are like that. Some kids are just influenced to be like this or that, making them to believe that it is entertaining or funny for them to do so even if it is hurtful or offending. Kids dont often realise theyre wrong and they just go with whatever their nature nourishes them to act like. If a kid is nourished right, then there are no cases of these happening.

    And yes, this happens to everyone but there are levels where surperiority takes a lot, therefore giving them advantage to say things that they can do that the person cant.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cahtster View Post
    Kids are never jealous whenever things are like that. Some kids are just influenced to be like this or that, making them to believe that it is entertaining or funny for them to do so even if it is hurtful or offending. Kids dont often realise theyre wrong and they just go with whatever their nature nourishes them to act like. If a kid is nourished right, then there are no cases of these happening.

    And yes, this happens to everyone but there are levels where surperiority takes a lot, therefore giving them advantage to say things that they can do that the person cant.
    Keeping in mind that more than half of the kids in GT are from 3rd world countries where their culture and religion oppresses women, they may act that way.

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    When I still had my purple set, I’ve had people call me gay and chase me around and bother me. This one guy went up to me and said something along the lines of this:

    “I’m gay too, so can I have your ances?”
    he wasn’t gay smh

    I’m not even gay. Also, since we’re at the topic already, why is being gay an insult? I know someone who is considered gay, and that doesn’t change anything! It’s completely the same as a straight person. Why is being gay a joke?
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    Quote Originally Posted by NekoWolf View Post
    Actually, my gender does affect alot of the things said to me. You're a guy right? Anyone ever tell you to go back to the kitchen because that's where you belong? And that women are supposed to be servants to men?
    How dare you assume my gender?

    Guys get told the most horrific things too, but they don't take it too seriously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Noobified View Post
    When I still had my purple set, I’ve had people call me gay and chase me around and bother me. This one guy went up to me and said something along the lines of this:

    “I’m gay too, so can I have your ances?”
    he wasn’t gay smh

    I’m not even gay. Also, since we’re at the topic already, why is being gay an insult? I know someone who is considered gay, and that doesn’t change anything! It’s completely the same as a straight person. Why is being gay a joke?
    Most of the 5-year-olds are extremely religious 200iq individuals that can't think for themselves.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cahtster View Post
    Kids are never jealous whenever things are like that. Some kids are just influenced to be like this or that, making them to believe that it is entertaining or funny for them to do so even if it is hurtful or offending. Kids dont often realise theyre wrong and they just go with whatever their nature nourishes them to act like. If a kid is nourished right, then there are no cases of these happening.

    And yes, this happens to everyone but there are levels where surperiority takes a lot, therefore giving them advantage to say things that they can do that the person cant.
    I agree with the first thing somewhat. But then again this is growtopia there are people who will be more "superior" to others in some kind of way no I'm not talking in terms of wealth but intellect that I would agree somewhat with I guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HugeLock View Post
    Keeping in mind that more than half of the kids in GT are from 3rd world countries where their culture and religion oppresses women, they may act that way.
    Kids are never jealous whenever things are like that. Some kids are just influenced to be like this or that, making them to believe that it is entertaining or funny for them to do so even if it is hurtful or offending. Kids dont often realise theyre wrong and they just go with whatever their nature nourishes them to act like. If a kid is nourished right, then there are no cases of these happening.

    Mhm. Thats why humanity is cruel.

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    I’m not even gay. Also, since we’re at the topic already, why is being gay an insult? I know someone who is considered gay, and that doesn’t change anything! It’s completely the same as a straight person. Why is being gay a joke?
    Because its a mockery to people who are sticking on how theyre feeling, even on vice versa of it. People are taught, educated, and encouraged to be in a straight line wether they like it or not. People who doesnt listen and wanted to be who they are, will most likely to be seen as a bad person. A disgrace to the humanity. Strengthen by other things that people believed in. Even in schools there are teachers who are siding with their opinions on being different to one another.

    It is a joke because some people likes to be a jerk whilst some just dont understand why theyre changing and they just cant accept it on what have other people told them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DragonicYT View Post
    I agree with the first thing somewhat. But then again this is growtopia there are people who will be more "superior" to others in some kind of way no I'm not talking in terms of wealth but intellect that I would agree somewhat with I guess.
    Well it happens on mostly everything that allows interacting with other players. People will always compare to things that they have or capable of.
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